The law of attraction works best when you design your energy on purpose. Every morning, plant seeds of positivity, abundance and gratitude, speak your declarations out loud, and give your energy to others with zero expectations. I call it the Good Things Will Happen Bank. Each deposit makes you a force of attraction.
- Your energy draws people and opportunities toward you, so create it on purpose every morning.
- A Good Things Will Happen Bank grows with every seed of positivity, abundance and gratitude you give away.
- Speak, see and feel your declarations. "I am a force of attraction" is one of mine.
- When a day goes sideways, look for the serendipity in it.
What is the law of attraction?
The law of attraction is the idea that the energy you put out draws people and opportunities back to you. My version is simple. I create my energy every day, and I speak it out loud.
On my birthday I drove to the golf course at 7 a.m. speaking my declarations. When I got to "I am a force of attraction," I asked the universe to attract someone into my foursome of strangers. At the first tee, one of the guys asked if I was the Rob Cressy who hosted a sports betting podcast he had listened to for years. Bo and I became friends on the spot.
That round was the epitome of speaking things into existence.
You speak things into creation so that things happen.
What is a Good Things Will Happen Bank?
A Good Things Will Happen Bank is an account of positive energy you build by planting seeds of positivity, abundance and gratitude, then giving those gifts to others. The more deposits you make, the more often good things come back and the greater the return.
You never know what will happen or when. Your job is to make the deposits.
| Seed | The question to ask yourself |
|---|---|
| Positivity | How are you designing positivity into your life? |
| Abundance | How are you living an abundance mindset? |
| Gratitude | How are you anchoring in gratitude daily? |
Plant these seeds in a morning practice and they become part of who you are. Then, as you walk through your day, you radiate an energy that draws others toward you. Best of all, you make every deposit from a place of zero expectations.
How do you become a force of attraction?
I saw the whole process play out on my way out of Dallas after Million Dollar Mastermind, a conference for entrepreneurs and business leaders.
- Decide who you will be before the day starts. That morning I chose my declarations as part of my morning routine, because I knew I wanted to be radiating at the event.
- Speak, see and feel it. When I say "I am a force of attraction," I picture myself as a diamond that is gleaming, attracting the right people and the right opportunities.
- Start the conversation. Waiting for my Uber, I met a couple with a Pittsburgh Penguins tattoo. I showed them my Steelers tattoo, and they invited me into their ride.
- Be a go giver. In that car I went into coach mode and poured into them for 15 minutes, helping with where they were in life and in business.
- Stay in flow when it goes sideways. Halfway there I realized I was headed to the wrong airport. I got dropped at a gas station, called a new Uber, and walked into Dallas Love Field at the exact moment my friend Jeff did.
Ask yourself one question today. What is my process for creating that magnetism, that force of attraction, in my life?
What declarations help you attract good things?
Declarations are I am statements you speak with conviction. These are four of mine, and you can find more ideas in my guide to I am affirmations.
- I am in flow. I picture myself riding the waves of life, the ups and the downs, so deep in it that I lose track of time.
- I am a force of attraction. I see a glow coming from me as I attract the right people, the right opportunities and money with abundance.
- I am a spiritual billionaire. I got this one from Jesse Itzler. A billionaire would be fortunate to have the energy and spirit I create each day.
- I am abundantly generous. I say it on the go, like when I am filling out the tip on a pizza order.
What is the difference between synchronicity and serendipity?
Synchronicity is when you and another person are so aligned that your paths keep crossing, the way Jeff and I kept running into each other. Serendipity is when something happens unexpectedly and leads to a positive outcome you never planned.
For a lot of people, the wrong airport ruins the day. For me, it made the best story, and it gave me 15 minutes to help two people.
Living a life where you radiate this sort of love is the best gift of all.
Rob Cressy
How do you manifest something you want?
I treat manifesting as a skill and a process you are totally in control of. It runs on three powers: intention (this is what I want), awareness (I see it in my life) and consistency (I see it often). Three habits keep the repetition going: speak your I am declarations, record your yearly goals on camera and listen back, and read your three year Vivid Vision, an idea I use from Cameron Herold's book. Start with the one that makes you feel most alive. You can go deeper on each habit in how to manifest your dreams and in these visualization techniques.
Do this today
- Make one deposit. Pick one person today and give them your positivity, gratitude or help with zero expectations.
- Speak your declaration. Say "I am a force of attraction" out loud on your drive, then see it and feel it.
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Attracting The Energy You Want
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Do you want to be a force of attraction and attract more good people and opportunities into your life? If so, this episode's for you. What's up? I'm Rob Cressy and I just got back from three days at Million Dollar Mastermind, a conference for entrepreneurs and business leaders who represent what winning looks like at all times. And I want to share a story that happened to me on my way out of Dallas less than what, 24 hours ago.
So had an amazing event and the event ends at, let's call it 1:30 and there's a group of us going to grab lunch at two o'clock. I don't know most of the people, but I know some of them. We're all part of Apex. We're all part of the same family. And when dinner or once lunch is done, it's time for me to head to the airport and I'm chilling outside and I'm about ready to get my Uber. Remember when I see a husband and wife standing there and we just start talking and it just so happens one of them is wearing a, or one of them has a penguins tattoo, Pittsburgh penguins.
So immediately I'm like, Hey, I'm from Pittsburgh. And I showed them my Steelers tattoo. And immediately they tell me they live in Pittsburgh. And then we, as yinzers, we start to chop it up. We're having a good time talking about the Penguins and the Steelers and the event and everything in between. And they're like, Hey, are you going to the airport? I'm like, yeah, I was just about to call an Uber. Like, Hey, you just want to jump into ours. I was like, of course, this sounds amazing. We can keep this conversation going.
So I jump into the Uber with them. I'm sitting in the front seat. They're in the back seat. And now me being a go giver, I'm always looking to help. So I'm finding out more about what they do, their situation. What are the things that I can do to level them up? And there's a myriad of things. And it ends up being a very in-depth personal conversation where I'm actually really able to pour into them in a variety of ways to really help them with where they are in life and in business.
And I feel so good because I'm in coach mode and it's like, man, the universe has just put us together outside of that restaurant. We were meant to be in this Uber ride together. And about halfway through it, we're going down the freeway. And I was like, wait a second, which airport are you going to? Because Dallas has two airports and they say DFW. And I'm like, whoa, I'm going to the other airport.
I just got into an Uber. We're 15 minutes into the trip and I'm going to the wrong airport. So I realized this, tell the driver, all right, we got to get off of the first exit. Got dropped off at a gas station and I've got to get out and call a new Uber and go back the other direction to go back to the other airport.
So all of this is happening. And of course I'm taking this in stride because the universe works in ways that are serendipitous and beautiful. And thankfully I'd left enough time in between that I wasn't tripping about if I was going to miss my flight or not, because quite frankly, I got the opportunity for 15 minutes to pour into this husband and wife and really help them on their journey.
So for me, it is absolutely an amazing story. So I call the Uber, tell the Uber driver that he gets me to Dallas Love Field. And as I walk through there immediately, I run into my friend, Jeff, who walks through the door at the exact same time. And I'd been kicking it with Jeff at MDM throughout the three days. We're good friends. I spoke to one of his real estate groups that he has, and we got the opportunity to end the event with a picture and a hug where I got to tell him this story literally as he's walking through. And it put a gigantic smile on my face.
And I'm sharing this because this is about the energy of the universe. Think about what you do every single day to create yourself in your energy. So for me, there's two declarations, maybe three of them that I'm very conscious about, about creating my energy every single day. One of them is I am in flow. And I sit there and I visualize myself riding the waves of life, the up and down. And I see myself as always in flow where you lose track of time. I love flow is the epitome of everything for me.
Number two, I am a force of attraction. And I visualize myself as this diamond that's just gleaming. And I say, I'm attracting the right people, the right opportunities. I'm attracting money into my life with abundance. Boom. And I visualize myself with like a glow, like this gleam coming from me. And I'm like, man, this is amazing.
And then number three, and I got this one from Jesse Itzler. I am a spiritual billionaire. And I think about the energy that I created myself every single day. And I'm like, man, a billionaire would be fortunate to have this energy and spirit that radiates in me every single day. So at the beginning in the morning, as part of my morning routine, those were three of the declarations that I'd created for myself that day. Because I knew when I went to the event, I wanted to be radiating. I wanted to be a force of attraction.
And it just so happens as my day went on, my force of attraction attracted the people from Pittsburgh, where I got the opportunity to help them and then ride in a cab with them. And then my energy and force of attraction, even when things went sideways, allowed me to run into my friend Jeff and share this story with him. And then my force of attraction also allowed me to have this story to now share with you.
And this is something where I believe and I trust in both the synchronicity and serendipity of life. And synchronicity of being like, man, Jeff and I are completely aligned. We ran into each other multiple times in serendipity. When something happens unexpectedly and there was a positive outcome other than what I thought it was going to be. For a lot of people, oh my God, I went to the wrong airport.
For me, I was like, this makes this the best story. But more importantly, I got to help you. And that is why the universe wanted me in this Uber with you. And I share this because primary to me is creating my being and who I am and the story that I tell myself in my identity.
And you can too in creating that system and process and routine for yourself every single day to create that radiance, to create that magnetism, to create that force of attraction. And I encourage you to ask yourself, what is my process for creating that magnetism, that force of attraction in my life? Because life is a lot more fun and prosperous when you're flowing with it and riding the waves of life. Instead of going against the grain or going by default.
And this is something that I live on a daily basis. And this story from less than 24 hours ago is such a great representation of it. So ride the frequencies of life, cultivate it, create it for who you are. Because when you do, unexpected positive things are on the other side.
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