Let it help design its job
Alex's strongest setup idea: explain your world, then ask the bot how it could help. Riley adds a useful simplification. Keep one general conversation you can always return to. A focused project can become its own bot when that separation helps.
Provide your current priorities, a few key reference documents, and what you want more space for. Your existing notes and past AI conversations can supply context without becoming a migration project.
Ask what they repeatedly chase, avoid, reconstruct, or forget. Those answers reveal useful responsibilities.
Here is what I do, what matters to me, and what keeps taking my attention: [context]. Suggest three specific ways you could help. For each, show the finished result I would receive and what information you need. Recommend one. Ask me only the questions needed to make that recommendation useful.
Source: Alex, setup, 10:04 · Riley, general conversation, 10:19